Of Wish

I wish "......." this is the common thought that comes in one's mind. Every living being always have some expectation from something or somebody. It is the human nature that man wants to achieve everything according to his choice. Wish is nothing but the human's expectation that he has in his heart. Man always wishes something and tries to achieve it. His eager to achieve never expires. Thus wish originates and diminishes only when they are either fulfilled or completely rejected.

Wishes are made for every age group of people.An old might wish to live calmly and healthy; a kid wishes new toys or chocolates; a youth wishes life full of fun; Wish does not depend to a particular age, gender,background etc. Every living being has some wish to fulfill. Lovers wish to be the most loved person by their beloved; a social reformist wishes to remove social evils from the society; a teacher wishes to have obedient students; a politician  wants to be the elected member; a poor wishes to have some money to fulfill primary needs; a common man wants to have peaceful environment; a friend wishes happiness; parents wishes prosperity to their children. Thus wishes are of various types for various types of people; the list of wishes continue for different people.

Wishes can be in any number. There can be one or more than one wish at a time. They are queued up with priority and are scheduled by the brain. Man wants to fulfill them according to the priority. Man does everything to fulfill wishes.From his heart to his strength he leaves no stone unturned to fulfill wishes.Being polite or hard at times, compromising, praying, worshiping God, blackmailing all includes to fulfill the wish.

Wishes always persist and affect the brain.Once the wish is made brain starts functioning to fulfill it. If wish is fulfilled it transforms into happiness while if rejected it gives sorrow. Turning down of the wish can disorder the brain and may lead to psychological diseases or depression. Once the expectation is attached with the wish it attaches with the man's thinking and either gives delight or misery.

Life is full of wishes. There are so many wishes that gets fulfilled and others unfulfilled. On the basis of those fulfilled wishes we decide how much blessed are we in our life, how much we achieved and what we lost in life.Am I happy? this is the common question that brain asks us. If the percentage of fulfilled wishes is higher in the list of wishes the answer becomes positive else the feeling of sorrow covers up.

At every instant of time wish originates in our mind.Wish never ends. All those who wishes are said to be living  normal life. Once the man stops wishing the life becomes dull and monotonous.Stopping of wishing can lead to depression and desire to achieve gets dilapidated.Wish inspires us to move further and achieve things in life. But it must be noted that wish must not transform into expectation. Expectation hurts if they remain unfulfilled while wish encourages us to move ahead.

Of God

       It has always been the subject of curiosity that what is controlling this Universe. Man has named it God. It is generally expected that there is some energy which empowers and controls this Universe. This energy is beyond time and is immortal. Everything in this Universe is said to diminish but what always exist is God.

       As the human takes birth on this earth he divides this Universe into planets,continents,countries and society  into various parts. There are so many bounds in every sphere of this Universe. Man is divided on the basis of caste,creed,color,religion and thus God also didn't remain unaffected from it. On the basis of religion Man has divided God and he calls it by different names. Hindus say Ram, Muslims Allah, Christians Jesus and so on...But it must be noted that in every religion God is said to be Almighty. Whatever Man can call him but the existence remains unique. It is just like having many nicknames of a single person. He is the ruler of this Universe and we are the child of  that Father. Trees breathe,Moon,Sun, Planets and every specie of this Universe is created and controlled by that unformed energy.

      An atheist does not believe in the existence of such kind of energy while the theist shows full faith in the existence.In every religion people have felt the existence of God and some divine souls are believed to  be the part of God. Man too have faith in God. Whenever he is in trouble he remembers the Almighty.

        Temples,Mosques,Churches are places where People show full faith, performs rituals to achieve Gods' blessings. But worshiping or performing rituals can lead to God's grace? No. God is not a man, it is an energy that has no shape and size but it can be transformed into any form. Then why we perform all these rituals, why we worship in various places? The only answer behind that human body consists of mind and soul. Though the soul is divine and eternal but mind is said to be floating and to control this mind we need some ways so that it can be concentrated. All these rituals helps in making our faith strong to that Almighty and also helps us in concentrate our mind. If there will be no such energy persist then Man will become wild and sin take place all over. Thus the fear of God or powerful authority persists which can punish evils so as to run  the Universe smoothly. But the true fact is that God is an energy that has no shape and it resides in every soul. What is required is to control the floating nature of mind and then making the soul to reach in the zero state where neither good persists nor evils.This is the state of tranquility where nothing remains.

         Faith in some energy can take us to the quietness and we require some energy which is more powerful to us and that is God whose fear can prevent us from being a sinner. Nature provides tranquility because it resides in the zero state and that's the reason why Nature is worshiped.

Of Journey

          All that is moving,revolving,rotating or in motion is journey. Journey shows that nothing is static;Everything that is in dynamic state describes the journey. Journey teaches us to move ahead,it never stops nor it goes in reverse direction but it moves in a circular path though sometimes take U-turn.

          Journey merely does not mean to reach from one place to another; Riding a bike from one point to another or travelling in a train from one station to another station is just a sub-part of journey; once we reach the so-called destination does not mean that journey stopped, it again starts. That what we think it as destination is merely a halt.

         All that persists in this Universe is in the state of journey; Sun,Moon,Stars,Planets,Trees,Oceans are in the state of journey. Their journey never ends. It has no destination to reach but it takes circular path and revolves forver. Evertything that originates diminishes but that diminishes originates again and joins the journey of Nature.

          So many people meet during our journey and our journey passes. During our journey we meet various types pf people. Some care us, love us and some hate us. Sometimes journey becomes easy and comfortable and sometimes uncomfort covers us. When our journey passes smoothly we always want to remain in that state but when unfavorable situation starts arising we think to reach destination as soon as possible and there are few who drops it in between. We must not accuse for our uncomfortable journey because it is the part of it.

           Life too called as journey by many poets. Life's journey begins from the day we come into existence in this Universe and continues till the day our existence destroys. The story of life means to move. As the time never stops, life's journey too must not stop whatever may be the situation.
        
          Journey only teaches us to move ahead in every situation whether it is favorable or critical; There are paths come where it becomes difficult to move but all passes and again the smooth road arrives where journey can become comfortable. During the journey we get  various types of path rocky,rough,smooth but journey means to move without complaining anything.

       

Depression

Depression is the pshychological state of mind which becomes actless and looses all hope. It is the condition of general emotional dejection. The feeling of loneliness and absorption of hope towards life leads to the state of depression.
         The initial question that arises in our mind is that why depression occurs? Does it merely a disease which occur due to variation of some hormones? Yes, it is but to a certain extent. The hormonal disorder is certainly seen in the depressed state but it is not a natural disorder but it is occured due to our behavior. Any incident that had taken place in past causes this type of disorder. Such types of incident were not accepted to our mind and results into depression.
          Depression do not belong to a particular age group. A kid might be depressed because of  negligence of his parents; a teenager because of his studies;a youth because of not having job; a lover because of his unsuccess in love; a husband/wife might feel depressed because of their bad relations; an old due to loneliness. What is common in the above cases is the expectation. Expectation towards anybody or anything is the root cause of depression. Our mind starts dreaming to happen things in our favor but it does not happen always. When our expectations are turned down they hurt too much, this affects the mind and leads to depression. This is the state when the person require someone to put confidence else he goes in the state of depression.
           A depressed person becomes so hopeless that he looses all hope towards life. Life becomes hell for him. Loneliness becomes the true friend for him and he seeks life in it. Person become so hopeless that neither he shares his feelings, nor tries to solve them. He always feel to live alone and this feeling to be alone makes him to think always negative and suppresses him to loose confidence and hope and thus it leads to depression.
           We all hope something from somebody/ something and always wanted to achieve it. Expecting love from beloved;name and fame in life;a loyal friend etc....and if they are not achieved it breaks our heart that much that we loose every hope and feels hollowness in life. Such type of questions always arise in the mind of a depressed person, for what he is alive?/ What has left for him to do?/Is there anything in this life to achieve? When these questions have only one answer -nothing, it means depression have entered in the person's life.
           A person who has entered in the state of depression must be handled with care. A depressed person requires love and confidence. Hope has to be maintained in any case. Only the hope towards life can help in overcomming depression. Pshychological treatment and care are the only medicines to fight with this disease.Depressed mind is vague and hope fills confidence to overcome from this state.

        

Madness

Are you mad? We usually hear people calling one another. Madness is nothing but act of behavior in an unusual manner. This behavior seems to be unusual,unfavorable and sometimes unaccepted. The simplest question that comes in our mind that who is mad? Is he the one who is mentally disturbed or a mentally healthy person who behaves differently from a normal person. Madness is the behavior that is sometimes uncontrolled,unethic or amused.
          If we judge the meaning of madness literally,then a mad is the person whose mental status is not in his control. If the mental status goes out of control, the person behaves in an unusual way in the society. Will it be right to call such a person mad? If yes, then why we call a normal person mad whose mental status is quite normal. He knows very well that who he is,he knows who are his relatives,his character and his status in the society. Then a person who does something different in the society must be called mad.These are people who act differently from the expectation of the people.
          There are four categories of people who can be called as mad. The first category belongs to the mentally retarded people who have lost their mental behavior. They live in their own world. Their act of behavior and thinking is unexpected and unaccepted in the society. The second category belongs to the lovers. They act differently from the normal people. A lover always sees none but his beloved everywhere. He sits under the moon and pass whole night seeing his beloved in the moon. If the love fails, he keeps waiting  his beloved and sees only his beloved in every individual.He can even pass all his nights and days withour eating and sleeping. The third category belongs to the poets whose imagination can reach beyond the normal people. They can imagine night in the miseries or morning in the hopes. Their speed of thinking is faster than the speed of light. Poets also seem to behave in an unexpcted manner from the common people. Their thought process is vast than the sky,deeper than the ocean. The last category belongs to the Philosophers,researchers and scientists. These are the highly educated people who believe in practical studies than theory. What they read,see and hear they apply it in their behavior and sometimes it seems to be an unusual way of act. No invention could have been possible if scientists would have not acted in an  unusual way. Most of the innovation,invention and discoveries have been done by the mad people of the world. Their madness have shown a way to the world to move ahead. Even a child behaves in an unusual manner, what retreives from him is the innovation. A smile comes seeing the madness of the kid, madness of a youth bring comedy or it hurts the heart of the people.
       Madness can be harmful to the society. It is the process of unusual thinking. Criminals are also thought to be mad. Their madness is so wild that it can harm the lives of the people. These are the people who put their innovative efforts in negative use. Such type of people can be said to be psychologically disordered, pathetic or mentally retarded. They leave no stone unturned to hurt the society and themselves.
       Madness is thus is the act of behavior that brings innovation. It is not possible for everyman to think differently. All those who think different,behaves different and do different are called to be mad as their acts are not understood by the people . Whatever that is new and unusual looks awkward but does something innovative. Let be a mad and enrich thoughts and bring some innovation that can be fruitful to the society.

Of Name

What is your name? This is the most common question asked when two unknown meet. We all are been called by some name or we can say a group of alphabets which is meaningful that makes our identity.Everybody in this Universe who are living or non-living has been named. Name provides a unique way of existence in this Universe.As soon as the thing originates or born is given a name to be called.
Man always wanted to get famous amongst others. The day he takes birth is been named by his guardians so that he can be called with it. It has also been noticed people while naming their kids take much care. They always wanted to name so that it not only look attractive but also sound creative. While naming people also take help of astrology and numerology. Astrologist and numerologist believe that the name that is been called produce affect on the personality of the Man. Moon signs,Sun signs are different ways which according to astrologist have affect on our lives. Numerologists calculate the number applying some mathematics on the name and gives their own views regarding names.
Not only Man in this Universe is been called by some names,animals,pets are also been named with great care. People always wanted to name their pets to provide them some identity and also their love towards them is seen. All those who are not named are vagabond. None cares them, nor they find any respectable position in the society.
It has always been questioned by some people what is there in the name? But name is the only thing that is the root cause of many problems. If  a Man is called as tommy he thinks himself to be abused as dog. If the name is used in any writing or anywhere that is disputed then it can cause some unpalatable situation.Everybody want to get famous in the society and they do everything to put their name so that they can find respectable position in the society. Sometimes people who are rich pay a good sum so as to purchase the name. It is often seen  people hiring some good writers to publish their writing on their name.
Names influence our lives. The more the innovative and creative name is the more it reflects the personality. If the name is unique it helps the person to achieve things. An interviewer asks the name first and if it is literary then it might be possible that whole interview rotate on the name. Even in the schools,offices who have different names are found to be more valued. In contrast to it if the name is old,or contains something laughable then it can prove against to that person.
People in order to show themselves different do mischief with their names. Sometimes they used the initials or sometimes change their spellings of their true names. Sometimes in order to short the names initials are also used of some respectable people of the society. Amitabh Bacchan is known as AB by his fans while Zaheer Khan as Zak. People sometimes also use names of their ideals to show their love towards them. Some uses name of their ideals to become like them. Writers often found to write their pen name,while criminals rename themselves to hide themselves from the society.
Name provides unique identity and reveals the personality of the person. Sometimes people having names opposite to their behavior are also found. Nayan Sukh who doesn't have eyes and Raja who even doesn't have food to eat. Sometimes people also found naming themselves according to the profession. Thanedar Singh, Hawaldar Singh, these are few common names which can be often seen in the society.
Name not only helps in calling ourselves but also helps in making our personality.Sweet heart or darling is often used for the beloved, puppy for the lovely pet, Surnames used by seniors to their sub-ordinates in offices or neighbors and some funny word is used for the friends.The different the name is the different is the influence seen. People with common names are sometimes treated as common while unusual names attract. Names have such a great effect on our personality that it can even changes the thinking. The unique the name is, the unique the personality reveals.

Various Characteristics Of Different People

Characteristics reveal the personality of a person. Nature,behavior,habits describe how the person is,how he behaves and lives life. There are different types of people in this world who behave differently. The characteristics of a person is like the characteristics of an element. Man is also made up of elements called as genes. Genes provide some characteristics to the man and thus he behave accordingly. Some genes are by born while some get adapted according to the environment.
There are various types of people, some seem to be cheerful while some rude,some are lazy while few are energetic,some motivated while some keep waiting to happen things,some are introvert while some extrovert and the mixture of both the two also prevails like mixture of milk and water, one can never know whether water is in the milk or milk in water.
Man is meant to be an intellectual animal but there are people who have shape and size like human but have doubt on their brain.Some think logically while some try to find the answer what is logic? Some speak with great care while some speak to show that they also have voice. There are other people too who it would be good to call them as dumb, some are too talkative and produce sound more than an old motor and some put permanat full stop on their mouth.
Some people are too lazy to enjoy life while some leave no stone unturned to enjoy every moment of life,others also persist who enjoy ocasionally while some require an invitation that there is something like entertainment in life.Some find life melodious and some search life in music.Some don't have to do anything with musical life they feel satisfied with the life which has no rhyme like the news paper's articles.Their routine is like that to read from the front page till the last and everyday they follow this rule with punctuality.
People of different kinds have different moods, their genes are so effective that they can hit you anytime if you interfere them. There are also people who never want to share anything,everything is private for them while some try every possible way to make others public. As a hero persists in the movie a villain too.Likewise there are people who can't see others happy while some are born to make others happy while some don't have anything to do with others, if they are happy the whole world is happy.
The characteristics of people are such that it shows the psychology of people,how they work,how they behave,how they act, how they feel,how they believe,how they regret. If the characteristics are read carefully then it becomes easy to know the person's psycholgy and then one can easily behave with them accordingly. Some never like to cheer while some can't live without cheering life. The various are the characteristics of people,different are the people in this world with different attitude.