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Sunday 11 December 2011

Holiday

     The most awaited day in a person's life is the holiday.This is the day that provides rest to the body which runs continuously like a machine on the working days.Anything that brings change from the normal routine is anxiously captured. Holiday brings that change and takes away in different direction.

      Sunday is the devoted day and is marked as holiday. As the weekend approaches one starts thinking towards it. Some pre-plans it while some rejoices dynamically.But the common is everyone  want to enjoy it without any interference. Not only employees or working people but also businessman seeks towards this day.Business grows as the earned money is spend on this day.It would not be wrong to call it as a 'Spending' day rather than a holiday.

     Holiday brings delight on the face and makes the person happy.Not even age puts any bar to rejoice it. Students anxiously wait for the holiday.A holiday's happiness brings the equivalent happiness that a kid receives after reaching in the mother's lap.Not only students but the youth too waits eagerly for this day.The best gift that a working person can have is the holiday.

      Holiday brings delight in various ways for various people.Kids get time to play;lovers can meet with their beloved;a working person feels happy to spend some time with his family;women can have time to shop;old feels happy seeing their children at home and spending their hours with them.

      Apart from Sunday there are other occasions that provides holiday.Religious or National festivals,unfavorable weather,strikes etc are some reasons that give chance to be relaxed.

      Man is always in fond of holiday.It is not because it only provides relaxation to the body but it is the nature of the man which demands change.What that is different from the normal is always perceived.Holidays are applauded and looked forward always. Thus they are always counted and remembered.





Sunday 27 November 2011

Birthday

    There are so many special days that comes in our life.These special days are somehow related with us.One of such type of day is our birthday.This is the occasion when one feels delighted and humorous.Birthday is meant to be celebrated with full joy and enthusiasm.The birthday person is imbibed with immense delight which is nothing but to have the feel that particular day is devoted to him/her.And truly the day becomes his/her.

     Birthday is the occasion not only to celebrate the happiness but also is the evidence of passing number of years on this beautiful earth.Since Man is mortal he always want to live longer as life after death is still a mystery.Birthday is celebrated on the basis of number of years one has passed .It is not only meant to be celebrated by the humans but birthday can also be celebrated of the pets and materialistic things.

     What we love most is always been celebrated and become the reason for cherish,what is required is the reason to celebrate it.Life is surrounded by so many miseries,sorrows and thus a faint ray of light is enough to be enjoyed and that is well provided by the birthday.

     Birthday is not only meant to feel happy alone but to share the happiness with others,to exchange love in the form of gifts and to have blessings of elders.This is the auspicious day that one waits eagerly to celebrate.

     Birthdays of various people are celebrated in different ways.kids celebrate their birthdays with their parents and friends,youth share this moment among themselves while old want to perform some charity on their big day.Birthday of known personalities are celebrated by their loved ones and their disciples in the form of charity and thus helping mankind.Not only humans but birthdays of God is also celebrated in different religions.

     The human life is covered with many adjectives such as happiness,sorrow,jealousy,misery etc.what is required is to transform them into bits of music and let them flow through the heartbeats.Birthday is the occasion that provides that moment to flow that music.The true prayer of the God is to keep smiling and bring smile on others face.When happiness flows through hearts it flushes all the garbage that has been collected inside the heart.

Thursday 13 October 2011

THE END

     Reaching the climax of occurring of a particular thing in a successful or unsuccessful mode is 'The End'. Anything whether materialistic or abstract originated in the Universe is supposed to be destroyed or reaches to its end point.Even a line that is drawn meets its end point after a certain distance and time.
     There are two types of things persist in this Universe -materialistic and abstract. The materialistic things those are created or developed or took birth have to die or diminish after certain time. Nature too is bounded in the limits of origin and end.Every materialistic element of this Universe is derived from the Nature thus everything that  has been originated has to meet with its end.Man,animals ,plants,ocean,sun,planets etc. all are the Natural elements of this Universe are predestined and predefined to reach to its end.Thus nothing in this Universe is immortal.
    Not only the materialistic elements but the abstract things do originate.Our thoughts are supposed to be originated at some point of time are too decided to follow the Nature's rule  and reach to its end position. Every process has to terminate after completing its task or it is killed after certain interval of time.
     What that most frightens the Man is the End. Nobody is immortal,the thought starts circulating in mind makes him pessimistic. Man tried every way,applying mechanism scientific and spiritual to escape from its end.But End does  not have its independence existence but it is the constraint of the 'Beginning'.
     The thought of End is supposed to be sorrowful. But end too brings the delight and a ray of hope enlightening  the mind. When the worse situation ends the mind is filled with enthusiasm and innovation.End contains the seeds of beginning and it sows as something ends.
     End is the confirmation of the completion of the task. Whatever task that been started has to go for its end.  If it does not task it is said to be incomplete. Every journey that has begun has to end after certain distance and time. Even a book or a movie reaches to its climax and ensures us that it has successfully completed.The End is the mandatory part of life.
     There are always two aspects of looking things. One that brings happiness and the other that put a cover of sorrow and miseries. They itself are a part of abstract family and thus are also temporary and gets destroyed. Thus End too .is destined to be destroy and this end of End is the beginning of new possibilities and hopes. Thus the origin of End lies in the beginning.

Friday 30 September 2011

Romance

     A feeling of happiness when overflows is romance. When the heart is overflown by the thought of happiness,surprise,rapture,thrill romance is covered up. The heart goes romantic when it beats without any interruption. When there persist no other thought rather than ecstasy it confirms the existence of romance.
     Romance is found to exist everywhere in this Universe.That what is free from bounds enjoys the romance. The Nature is said to be most romantic. It consists of happiness,calmness,peace and greenery. Romance exists in every living being. Every heart that beats or alive is said to comprise of romance in it. What is required is to bring up the romance. When the feelings of calmness,happiness,peace starts overflowing the heart starts rejoicing romance..
     Every group of people can be found romantic. A kid might be most romantic when he is gifted with a new toy;A lover is most romantic in the arms of beloved;A son might be most romantic when parents start showering love;An old might be most romantic seeing their children happy; Every heart feels romantic when the Mother Earth showers love of greenery,calmness and prosperity.
     There are occasions when heart feels most romantic. Weather and Nature plays the most important role in it. When the atmosphere is imbibed with fragrance,greenery,calmness etc the romance starts overflowing.In the full moon light lovers seems to be most romantic. Poets are said to be most romantic at such times too. A devotee or saint is most romantic during the chanting of rhythms of God. There may be several reasons that heart finds to get romantic.
      Romantic mood delights the heart and mind. It empties the heart from the problems and transforms the mood to feel free and glad. It is the situation when a person never thinks of chains ,bounds and evils. Only the feeling of delight,goodness is occupied inside the heart. Romance is meant to every heart. It directly connects heart with the Nature. Romance makes the environment pleasant,light and ecstatic.
      There are other factors also that affect on the atmosphere to produce romance. Music,weather,Nature when all combines and showers, then heart rejoices the rain of romance. Flowing of water with musical sound makes the atmosphere romantic too. Fragrance of romance can flow with the air anytime,anywhere.
     Romance is not only meant to be the base of showing love towards others. But it teaches every heart mercy,kindness,gentleness,truth. This is the situation when heart has no place for hatred,jealousy,evils.Let the romance flow in the air so the every heart when inhales it gets imbibed with happiness and truth.

Saturday 10 September 2011

Modernization

      The spontaneous act that overflows and comes out without any bounds is modernization. Modernization is the concept that provides independence,freedom from all kinds of bounds and chains. When the limit of thinking tends to infinity it leads to modernization.When in the cold weather bright sun rays provides warmth of happiness is modernization.
      The Nature is said to be spontaneous, live and energetic because it is spontaneous. It is not tied by any kinds of chains and thus the outcome that we receive from Nature is liveliness,happiness,spontaneity and freedom. Everything in this Universe is natural and thus the human beings too, their feelings,their thoughts are also spontaneous but when they are overpowered by chains become decayed. To break all he chains is the evolution of modernization. Thus modernization is nothing but to make our thoughts and feelings widen and limitless.To provide wings to our thoughts is modernization.
       Modernization comes with the education. The healthy thoughts can only be developed in healthy mind. Education develops our mind but merely literacy may lead to deficiency. Half educated is as much dangerous as the medicine which causes side effects.Modernization gets decayed when it is misunderstood. It must not be misused as it provides freedom of thoughts and feelings.A controlled missile in the space can lead to developments but a lost missile in space can lead to destruction.
       Modernization undoubtedly provides a healthy way of thinking to think in a positive attitude, to move further on the path of development, to break all the chains, to give horizon to development,to develop an educated society and to free ourselves from all evils.But when evils start overpowering modernization then feelings get devastated.They decay and looses its meaning.It must not be forgotten that modernization is the name of innovation,development,integrity,summation an joins. If something that leads to decay,differentiation,destruction can never be termed as modernization.
       A child thinks to fly in he sky is modernization; To overcome all evil traditions is modernization; to provide food to hunger is modernization;to show respect towards elders is modernization; to develop innovative and useful technologies is modernization; To wipe out one's tears is modernization;to sing rhythm of integrity is modernization;to ensure development of the society is modernization; the name of unity is modernization;to give wings to the thoughts and feelings is modernization;to provide smile one's face is modernization;to help needy one's is modernization.

Sunday 21 August 2011

Independence

     Independence is nothing but to be free to express our thoughts. When the feelings are expressed without any bounds or without under any pressure independence is achieved. But it must be provided that it must not go beyond the Nature's limitations. The law of Nature must not be broken. It would be better to say that when feelings and thoughts are expressed under the law of Nature is Independence.
     Everything in this Universe that has been created by the mother Nature is independent provided that it follows all the rules of it. If the rules are broken then it is not independence but dictatorship.The soul is free from all bounds and thus it is independent; the trees;the stars;the moon;the sun;the birds;the animals; everything that has no limitation in their expression are said to be independent; A child is said to be independent from all   worldliness issues.Abiding the law is the true meaning of independence. It does not mean that we are dependent or slaves. A child is independent though he depends on his parents; an employee is independent though he follows his boss; Citizens of the country has to follow all the laws of the nation. It is mandatory to maintain law and peace and these laws mus be followed by everyone. Abiding laws cannot be called as dependency.
     Dependence is to be dependent completely on other substance. Man depends on water to live;Pets depend on their master;Slaves are made to be depend on their master, they have no freedom to express themselves;some old people are made to  get depend on their caretakers; These dependents have no freedom to express their thoughts. They are completely under control of some other person or substance.
     Independence must not be misused else it can ruin the person or country. Independence is the freedom to achieve things legally without being in control of any external force but it is misused or misunderstood that it can break all the limitations of the law or Nature. Going beyond the limitations can disturb the Nature's cycle which can result into surge.
     Independence provide rights and these rights when used systematically helps to uplift the society or the Nation. Independence leads to innovation and development. It breaks all the chains of bounds. One has the full right to go beyond thinking following the rules of the law. Expression of feelings and thoughts always bring innovation. When the innovative ideas are implemented they result into development.

Wednesday 3 August 2011

Begging

To ask something from somebody without paying and in order not to return it anytime is begging. Begging gives the chance to the beggar so as to save his time,hard work and money. Its the best option to get the required things without any investment.

     Merely spreading the hands before the other person is not begging but sometimes asking the things by blackmailing or achieving some other favor in return must also be categorized in begging. Begging is to achieving things at free of cost.

     The day from which the man comes into existence he starts begging. The kid begs to his mother to take care; children beg their parents for toys; Lover begs love from his beloved; Old people begs their children to take their care; Students beg for good marks; Employee begs before his boss for leave; Saints beg God for humanity and peace; Soul begs to get free from birth and death.

     There are both advantages and disadvantages of begging. People become lazy and habitual if they get things by others without ant repayment or hard work. They never do any hard work and always want to ask things from others. Besides demerits there are some advantages too come. Begging for something but provided that it must be paid can lead to beneficial changes. Begging from Almighty being polite can lead to peace; Begging for loan with the condition that it will be paid with interest can change one's life.

     There are various types of beggars who beg. It is not only done by poor for food and money for primary needs. Begging is also been done by saints, Hizra's, frauds,helpless etc...Today begging has become the profession too. Kids been used for this purpose in trains,platforms,streets,temples . There are beggars who perform this duty as a professional. They work for eight hours as a good employee and completes their target. In the name of entertainment and God begging has captured the the big market of begging. It gives a handsome turnover every year. 

    

Thursday 21 July 2011

Soul- An energy

     The energy that commands and controls the mind,body and heart is soul. It is the form of energy that resides in the body and controls it. Soul is said to be the ingredient of God. God is also nothing but the energy that controls the Universe. Soul is the part of the energy that what is so called God which has the power to operate body.

     Soul is said to be energy because it has no shape,size but has weight. This is something that persist inside the body which controls the heart and body. How we move? What makes us feel hungry? What makes us thinking? How brain functions? How is mind controlled? All these questions have a unique answer that there must be some energy that controls and signals the body. 

     Every living being is said to have soul.Whether human,insects,birds,animals and all those that can think,move. It is the soul that controls their body and heart. The situation of comma is when bran starts dysfunction  but still the being is alive because the soul still remains in the body.

     As the body requires energy to be healthy soul too requires useful nutrients.Energy of good Karma,devotion,spirituality,meditation are the ingredients that a soul requires. Soul is said to be pious and pure. Soul is free from hallucination,jealousy,hatred,happiness,glory,defamation and everything.Heart functions to control pulse and brain to think and soul controls both of them.

     Soul is like the rays of Sun which is also an energy that provides required constituents to the living beings on this planet and Sun can be metaphorically compared as God, the constituents of all energies which controls the Universe. The rays are originated from Sun and fills in it again.

     Energy is never lost. Once the body becomes useless this energy transforms into another form and leaves the body. This transformation leads to the death of the body but the soul never dies. Either it changes it's shape or imbibes in its origin or resides in another body and it results into reincarnation. When the soul is left free in the Universe it is either called ghost or angel. 

     As soul is energy it is our (brain's) duty to think in its utilization. It can be used or misused. It depends on the brain and body how and when it can be used. If it is used in good work the living being can be called saint and if it is misused living being can be called as sinner.

     The question is always asked where is God? God is nowhere but resides in the form of energy or soul inside our body. It resides in every living being. This energy is pious,magical,pure. To worship soul is to worship God. Keeping faith and devotion in soul is to have faith and belief in ourselves and it results into positive attitude  that what a living being always want.









Wednesday 6 July 2011

Idea

         The thought that emerge suddenly in order to fulfill the wish is Idea. Idea is nothing but the analytic process of thinking that generates without any prior notice of the mind or the body. Idea is the outcome of the mind's process.
         Generation of the Idea can take place at any certain place,time. Idea may emerge in morning;in afternoon; or in evening; it may emerge while working in the office;while studying; during lunch; while chatting; or in the dreams. Ideas are free and leisured that generates in free manner.
         Age is not a bar for an idea to emerge. A child may produce a brilliant idea that what a senior might fail to do; Ideas are not restricted to any group of people; An illiterate might be more reasonable than an educated; Kids sometimes give such ideas that are widely appreciated.
         Ideas are of various types. A kid always think to get a chocolate or toy; Lovers plan to meet; Youth think to earn money; Idea to defeat the opponent is always captured by the sportsperson; Employees always try to escape from the boss eyes; Businessman tries to grow business more; A cook always finds the new ideas to cook delicious dishes; A housewife weaves the thought to save money. Ideas are different for different people and they emerge at sudden point of time. The list of ideas varies with the situation.
        The world is running on the base of the brilliant ideas. If the idea of gravitational force by falling of apple would have not emerged then the works done in the Physics could have not been possible. All the innovative works which have been done in this Universe are possible only because of the unique,innovative and brilliant ideas. Only the innovative idea can lead to inventions and discoveries. All those who think innovative and positive, the creative ideas emerge for them.
        It is the only idea in this Universe which is appreciated. All the areas of creativity are running on the innovative ideas. Film industry, Advertisement industry, Sci-Fi areas all are captured by the innovative people who think differently and ideas cover their brain. Without the idea no innovation could have been possible. Talent is nothing but the emerging of the new idea.
       Ideas are so important and precious that people leave no stone unturned to steal them. In the field of creativity ideas are paid and appreciated. Ideas plays the big tricks in the politics and changed the worlds scenario in the past. But it must not be forgotten there are other ideas too which have ruined the people. Ideas are unique, they need to be tested and sometimes they fail too. 

Tuesday 31 May 2011

Of Wish

I wish "......." this is the common thought that comes in one's mind. Every living being always have some expectation from something or somebody. It is the human nature that man wants to achieve everything according to his choice. Wish is nothing but the human's expectation that he has in his heart. Man always wishes something and tries to achieve it. His eager to achieve never expires. Thus wish originates and diminishes only when they are either fulfilled or completely rejected.

Wishes are made for every age group of people.An old might wish to live calmly and healthy; a kid wishes new toys or chocolates; a youth wishes life full of fun; Wish does not depend to a particular age, gender,background etc. Every living being has some wish to fulfill. Lovers wish to be the most loved person by their beloved; a social reformist wishes to remove social evils from the society; a teacher wishes to have obedient students; a politician  wants to be the elected member; a poor wishes to have some money to fulfill primary needs; a common man wants to have peaceful environment; a friend wishes happiness; parents wishes prosperity to their children. Thus wishes are of various types for various types of people; the list of wishes continue for different people.

Wishes can be in any number. There can be one or more than one wish at a time. They are queued up with priority and are scheduled by the brain. Man wants to fulfill them according to the priority. Man does everything to fulfill wishes.From his heart to his strength he leaves no stone unturned to fulfill wishes.Being polite or hard at times, compromising, praying, worshiping God, blackmailing all includes to fulfill the wish.

Wishes always persist and affect the brain.Once the wish is made brain starts functioning to fulfill it. If wish is fulfilled it transforms into happiness while if rejected it gives sorrow. Turning down of the wish can disorder the brain and may lead to psychological diseases or depression. Once the expectation is attached with the wish it attaches with the man's thinking and either gives delight or misery.

Life is full of wishes. There are so many wishes that gets fulfilled and others unfulfilled. On the basis of those fulfilled wishes we decide how much blessed are we in our life, how much we achieved and what we lost in life.Am I happy? this is the common question that brain asks us. If the percentage of fulfilled wishes is higher in the list of wishes the answer becomes positive else the feeling of sorrow covers up.

At every instant of time wish originates in our mind.Wish never ends. All those who wishes are said to be living  normal life. Once the man stops wishing the life becomes dull and monotonous.Stopping of wishing can lead to depression and desire to achieve gets dilapidated.Wish inspires us to move further and achieve things in life. But it must be noted that wish must not transform into expectation. Expectation hurts if they remain unfulfilled while wish encourages us to move ahead.









Saturday 14 May 2011

Of God

       It has always been the subject of curiosity that what is controlling this Universe. Man has named it God. It is generally expected that there is some energy which empowers and controls this Universe. This energy is beyond time and is immortal. Everything in this Universe is said to diminish but what always exist is God.

       As the human takes birth on this earth he divides this Universe into planets,continents,countries and society  into various parts. There are so many bounds in every sphere of this Universe. Man is divided on the basis of caste,creed,color,religion and thus God also didn't remain unaffected from it. On the basis of religion Man has divided God and he calls it by different names. Hindus say Ram, Muslims Allah, Christians Jesus and so on...But it must be noted that in every religion God is said to be Almighty. Whatever Man can call him but the existence remains unique. It is just like having many nicknames of a single person. He is the ruler of this Universe and we are the child of  that Father. Trees breathe,Moon,Sun, Planets and every specie of this Universe is created and controlled by that unformed energy.

      An atheist does not believe in the existence of such kind of energy while the theist shows full faith in the existence.In every religion people have felt the existence of God and some divine souls are believed to  be the part of God. Man too have faith in God. Whenever he is in trouble he remembers the Almighty.

        Temples,Mosques,Churches are places where People show full faith, performs rituals to achieve Gods' blessings. But worshiping or performing rituals can lead to God's grace? No. God is not a man, it is an energy that has no shape and size but it can be transformed into any form. Then why we perform all these rituals, why we worship in various places? The only answer behind that human body consists of mind and soul. Though the soul is divine and eternal but mind is said to be floating and to control this mind we need some ways so that it can be concentrated. All these rituals helps in making our faith strong to that Almighty and also helps us in concentrate our mind. If there will be no such energy persist then Man will become wild and sin take place all over. Thus the fear of God or powerful authority persists which can punish evils so as to run  the Universe smoothly. But the true fact is that God is an energy that has no shape and it resides in every soul. What is required is to control the floating nature of mind and then making the soul to reach in the zero state where neither good persists nor evils.This is the state of tranquility where nothing remains.

         Faith in some energy can take us to the quietness and we require some energy which is more powerful to us and that is God whose fear can prevent us from being a sinner. Nature provides tranquility because it resides in the zero state and that's the reason why Nature is worshiped.

Monday 2 May 2011

Of Journey

          All that is moving,revolving,rotating or in motion is journey. Journey shows that nothing is static;Everything that is in dynamic state describes the journey. Journey teaches us to move ahead,it never stops nor it goes in reverse direction but it moves in a circular path though sometimes take U-turn.

          Journey merely does not mean to reach from one place to another; Riding a bike from one point to another or travelling in a train from one station to another station is just a sub-part of journey; once we reach the so-called destination does not mean that journey stopped, it again starts. That what we think it as destination is merely a halt.

         All that persists in this Universe is in the state of journey; Sun,Moon,Stars,Planets,Trees,Oceans are in the state of journey. Their journey never ends. It has no destination to reach but it takes circular path and revolves forver. Evertything that originates diminishes but that diminishes originates again and joins the journey of Nature.

          So many people meet during our journey and our journey passes. During our journey we meet various types pf people. Some care us, love us and some hate us. Sometimes journey becomes easy and comfortable and sometimes uncomfort covers us. When our journey passes smoothly we always want to remain in that state but when unfavorable situation starts arising we think to reach destination as soon as possible and there are few who drops it in between. We must not accuse for our uncomfortable journey because it is the part of it.

           Life too called as journey by many poets. Life's journey begins from the day we come into existence in this Universe and continues till the day our existence destroys. The story of life means to move. As the time never stops, life's journey too must not stop whatever may be the situation.
        
          Journey only teaches us to move ahead in every situation whether it is favorable or critical; There are paths come where it becomes difficult to move but all passes and again the smooth road arrives where journey can become comfortable. During the journey we get  various types of path rocky,rough,smooth but journey means to move without complaining anything.

       

Monday 18 April 2011

Depression

Depression is the pshychological state of mind which becomes actless and looses all hope. It is the condition of general emotional dejection. The feeling of loneliness and absorption of hope towards life leads to the state of depression.
         The initial question that arises in our mind is that why depression occurs? Does it merely a disease which occur due to variation of some hormones? Yes, it is but to a certain extent. The hormonal disorder is certainly seen in the depressed state but it is not a natural disorder but it is occured due to our behavior. Any incident that had taken place in past causes this type of disorder. Such types of incident were not accepted to our mind and results into depression.
          Depression do not belong to a particular age group. A kid might be depressed because of  negligence of his parents; a teenager because of his studies;a youth because of not having job; a lover because of his unsuccess in love; a husband/wife might feel depressed because of their bad relations; an old due to loneliness. What is common in the above cases is the expectation. Expectation towards anybody or anything is the root cause of depression. Our mind starts dreaming to happen things in our favor but it does not happen always. When our expectations are turned down they hurt too much, this affects the mind and leads to depression. This is the state when the person require someone to put confidence else he goes in the state of depression.
           A depressed person becomes so hopeless that he looses all hope towards life. Life becomes hell for him. Loneliness becomes the true friend for him and he seeks life in it. Person become so hopeless that neither he shares his feelings, nor tries to solve them. He always feel to live alone and this feeling to be alone makes him to think always negative and suppresses him to loose confidence and hope and thus it leads to depression.
           We all hope something from somebody/ something and always wanted to achieve it. Expecting love from beloved;name and fame in life;a loyal friend etc....and if they are not achieved it breaks our heart that much that we loose every hope and feels hollowness in life. Such type of questions always arise in the mind of a depressed person, for what he is alive?/ What has left for him to do?/Is there anything in this life to achieve? When these questions have only one answer -nothing, it means depression have entered in the person's life.
           A person who has entered in the state of depression must be handled with care. A depressed person requires love and confidence. Hope has to be maintained in any case. Only the hope towards life can help in overcomming depression. Pshychological treatment and care are the only medicines to fight with this disease.Depressed mind is vague and hope fills confidence to overcome from this state.


        

Tuesday 29 March 2011

Madness

Are you mad? We usually hear people calling one another. Madness is nothing but act of behavior in an unusual manner. This behavior seems to be unusual,unfavorable and sometimes unaccepted. The simplest question that comes in our mind that who is mad? Is he the one who is mentally disturbed or a mentally healthy person who behaves differently from a normal person. Madness is the behavior that is sometimes uncontrolled,unethic or amused.
          If we judge the meaning of madness literally,then a mad is the person whose mental status is not in his control. If the mental status goes out of control, the person behaves in an unusual way in the society. Will it be right to call such a person mad? If yes, then why we call a normal person mad whose mental status is quite normal. He knows very well that who he is,he knows who are his relatives,his character and his status in the society. Then a person who does something different in the society must be called mad.These are people who act differently from the expectation of the people.
          There are four categories of people who can be called as mad. The first category belongs to the mentally retarded people who have lost their mental behavior. They live in their own world. Their act of behavior and thinking is unexpected and unaccepted in the society. The second category belongs to the lovers. They act differently from the normal people. A lover always sees none but his beloved everywhere. He sits under the moon and pass whole night seeing his beloved in the moon. If the love fails, he keeps waiting  his beloved and sees only his beloved in every individual.He can even pass all his nights and days withour eating and sleeping. The third category belongs to the poets whose imagination can reach beyond the normal people. They can imagine night in the miseries or morning in the hopes. Their speed of thinking is faster than the speed of light. Poets also seem to behave in an unexpcted manner from the common people. Their thought process is vast than the sky,deeper than the ocean. The last category belongs to the Philosophers,researchers and scientists. These are the highly educated people who believe in practical studies than theory. What they read,see and hear they apply it in their behavior and sometimes it seems to be an unusual way of act. No invention could have been possible if scientists would have not acted in an  unusual way. Most of the innovation,invention and discoveries have been done by the mad people of the world. Their madness have shown a way to the world to move ahead. Even a child behaves in an unusual manner, what retreives from him is the innovation. A smile comes seeing the madness of the kid, madness of a youth bring comedy or it hurts the heart of the people.
       Madness can be harmful to the society. It is the process of unusual thinking. Criminals are also thought to be mad. Their madness is so wild that it can harm the lives of the people. These are the people who put their innovative efforts in negative use. Such type of people can be said to be psychologically disordered, pathetic or mentally retarded. They leave no stone unturned to hurt the society and themselves.
       Madness is thus is the act of behavior that brings innovation. It is not possible for everyman to think differently. All those who think different,behaves different and do different are called to be mad as their acts are not understood by the people . Whatever that is new and unusual looks awkward but does something innovative. Let be a mad and enrich thoughts and bring some innovation that can be fruitful to the society.

Monday 21 March 2011

Of Name

What is your name? This is the most common question asked when two unknown meet. We all are been called by some name or we can say a group of alphabets which is meaningful that makes our identity.Everybody in this Universe who are living or non-living has been named. Name provides a unique way of existence in this Universe.As soon as the thing originates or born is given a name to be called.
Man always wanted to get famous amongst others. The day he takes birth is been named by his guardians so that he can be called with it. It has also been noticed people while naming their kids take much care. They always wanted to name so that it not only look attractive but also sound creative. While naming people also take help of astrology and numerology. Astrologist and numerologist believe that the name that is been called produce affect on the personality of the Man. Moon signs,Sun signs are different ways which according to astrologist have affect on our lives. Numerologists calculate the number applying some mathematics on the name and gives their own views regarding names.
Not only Man in this Universe is been called by some names,animals,pets are also been named with great care. People always wanted to name their pets to provide them some identity and also their love towards them is seen. All those who are not named are vagabond. None cares them, nor they find any respectable position in the society.
It has always been questioned by some people what is there in the name? But name is the only thing that is the root cause of many problems. If  a Man is called as tommy he thinks himself to be abused as dog. If the name is used in any writing or anywhere that is disputed then it can cause some unpalatable situation.Everybody want to get famous in the society and they do everything to put their name so that they can find respectable position in the society. Sometimes people who are rich pay a good sum so as to purchase the name. It is often seen  people hiring some good writers to publish their writing on their name.
Names influence our lives. The more the innovative and creative name is the more it reflects the personality. If the name is unique it helps the person to achieve things. An interviewer asks the name first and if it is literary then it might be possible that whole interview rotate on the name. Even in the schools,offices who have different names are found to be more valued. In contrast to it if the name is old,or contains something laughable then it can prove against to that person.
People in order to show themselves different do mischief with their names. Sometimes they used the initials or sometimes change their spellings of their true names. Sometimes in order to short the names initials are also used of some respectable people of the society. Amitabh Bacchan is known as AB by his fans while Zaheer Khan as Zak. People sometimes also use names of their ideals to show their love towards them. Some uses name of their ideals to become like them. Writers often found to write their pen name,while criminals rename themselves to hide themselves from the society.
Name provides unique identity and reveals the personality of the person. Sometimes people having names opposite to their behavior are also found. Nayan Sukh who doesn't have eyes and Raja who even doesn't have food to eat. Sometimes people also found naming themselves according to the profession. Thanedar Singh, Hawaldar Singh, these are few common names which can be often seen in the society.
Name not only helps in calling ourselves but also helps in making our personality.Sweet heart or darling is often used for the beloved, puppy for the lovely pet, Surnames used by seniors to their sub-ordinates in offices or neighbors and some funny word is used for the friends.The different the name is the different is the influence seen. People with common names are sometimes treated as common while unusual names attract. Names have such a great effect on our personality that it can even changes the thinking. The unique the name is, the unique the personality reveals.

Wednesday 16 March 2011

Various Characteristics Of Different People

Characteristics reveal the personality of a person. Nature,behavior,habits describe how the person is,how he behaves and lives life. There are different types of people in this world who behave differently. The characteristics of a person is like the characteristics of an element. Man is also made up of elements called as genes. Genes provide some characteristics to the man and thus he behave accordingly. Some genes are by born while some get adapted according to the environment.
There are various types of people, some seem to be cheerful while some rude,some are lazy while few are energetic,some motivated while some keep waiting to happen things,some are introvert while some extrovert and the mixture of both the two also prevails like mixture of milk and water, one can never know whether water is in the milk or milk in water.
Man is meant to be an intellectual animal but there are people who have shape and size like human but have doubt on their brain.Some think logically while some try to find the answer what is logic? Some speak with great care while some speak to show that they also have voice. There are other people too who it would be good to call them as dumb, some are too talkative and produce sound more than an old motor and some put permanat full stop on their mouth.
Some people are too lazy to enjoy life while some leave no stone unturned to enjoy every moment of life,others also persist who enjoy ocasionally while some require an invitation that there is something like entertainment in life.Some find life melodious and some search life in music.Some don't have to do anything with musical life they feel satisfied with the life which has no rhyme like the news paper's articles.Their routine is like that to read from the front page till the last and everyday they follow this rule with punctuality.
People of different kinds have different moods, their genes are so effective that they can hit you anytime if you interfere them. There are also people who never want to share anything,everything is private for them while some try every possible way to make others public. As a hero persists in the movie a villain too.Likewise there are people who can't see others happy while some are born to make others happy while some don't have anything to do with others, if they are happy the whole world is happy.
The characteristics of people are such that it shows the psychology of people,how they work,how they behave,how they act, how they feel,how they believe,how they regret. If the characteristics are read carefully then it becomes easy to know the person's psycholgy and then one can easily behave with them accordingly. Some never like to cheer while some can't live without cheering life. The various are the characteristics of people,different are the people in this world with different attitude.

Sunday 13 March 2011

Etiquette

             Etiquette is a word formed for the human beings. This is the only quality that differentiate a man from the animals. Those who are breathing must possess it as an evidence of their existence as a human being. There are many creatures in this Universe who eat  well, drink well and sleep well and pass life in wildly manner. What makes a man different from those creatures?
             Some are well cultured and find themselves on high position in the society while few are the exceptional cases when it becomes very difficult to separate them from the category of animals just because of their shape and size which seems as of human. In certain cases it becomes necessary to show manliness qualities which can prove a man as a human being. While eating, while talking, while sleeping, while reading, while dressing, while walking or at any of our acts one should follow certain rules or else he should be categorized in that exceptional case.
             All those who are great or are respected in the society are the strict followers of etiquette. Etiquette enhances the character and makes it as holy as Ganges. Man's character is just like the river in which if etiquette flow then it remains soft and clear otherwise remains the water of gutters which is full of dirt and smell.
              Etiquette give birth to positive and healthy thinking. A man acts accordingly to his thinking. If there are good and spiritual thoughts in the heart then the actions will also be performed accordingly. Etiquette moralizes the man, increases his charm,serve him and takes him to zenith. This dose provides the necessary elements that a body and the soul requires.

Note:- This article has been published in Veerangana in 2005-2006 and is a creative work of mine and belongs to me.

Thursday 10 March 2011

Social Networking Sites


Human is always considered as the intellectual animal and takes birth to interact people. In the different ages man has found different mediums to interact. From the ancient age to the Modern age man tried every possible way of networking.From the pigeons to the telephones and from the mobiles to the networking sites the medium of interaction have become easy,simple and more convinient.This is the era of networking sites where man want to interact with various kinds of people, whom he knows, whom he dont know, his friends,his enemies,his relatives,parents,sibilings,beloved or girl friend or a boy friend. Interaction and chatting delights the person in various ways. sometimes it provides knowledge,sometimes happiness and sometimes a way to get the work done.
Networking sites can be called as the pocket world where people can talk, interact,send mesages whenever,whereever and whom so ever. Not only it changed the world of business,media and students it also showed new areas for the criminals, illegal relations. It has become the place to do everything at one place.From the recreation to the commitment in the relations. If you are feeling lethargic you can find music,for gaining knowledge you have various articles, for the students subjects and topics to pass examination are always available, for the business companies a good  way to advertise their products and to flirt, girls can find handsome dudes and vice versa. 
Time has changed and the era seems to be more fast,quick and clever. The young and undeveloped branins don't take now years to grow, even a kid of 6 years who give his 3-4 hours regularly on these sites is far more mature,developed and witted than a person of 45+ years who never surf of such places. Earlier, kids were given the dose of milk,dry fruits,and some herbal medicines to grow up their mind, now everything is constituted in these sites, its just like a capsule which consists of dose and kids feed it and develop themselves. But everything that is provided in exccess is always dangerous so is the case with such sites. The excessism can lead to side effects as well. 
Whatever may be these sites are growing at much faster rates even than the population of India and Pakistan. People who even don't have good meals to eat, have their own account on such sites. With the rate they grew they have also put pshychologists in dillema whether its a necessity now to surf on such sites or its a way to diminish ourselves. Loneliness,sezopherina,and other pshychological diseases are in excess now. People become so much addictive that they even can forget to eat,sleep on time. Such is the impact of such sites. You can forget everything including yourselves but you won't leave any stone unturned to forget your username and password of your networking site.