Madness

Are you mad? We usually hear people calling one another. Madness is nothing but act of behavior in an unusual manner. This behavior seems to be unusual,unfavorable and sometimes unaccepted. The simplest question that comes in our mind that who is mad? Is he the one who is mentally disturbed or a mentally healthy person who behaves differently from a normal person. Madness is the behavior that is sometimes uncontrolled,unethic or amused.
          If we judge the meaning of madness literally,then a mad is the person whose mental status is not in his control. If the mental status goes out of control, the person behaves in an unusual way in the society. Will it be right to call such a person mad? If yes, then why we call a normal person mad whose mental status is quite normal. He knows very well that who he is,he knows who are his relatives,his character and his status in the society. Then a person who does something different in the society must be called mad.These are people who act differently from the expectation of the people.
          There are four categories of people who can be called as mad. The first category belongs to the mentally retarded people who have lost their mental behavior. They live in their own world. Their act of behavior and thinking is unexpected and unaccepted in the society. The second category belongs to the lovers. They act differently from the normal people. A lover always sees none but his beloved everywhere. He sits under the moon and pass whole night seeing his beloved in the moon. If the love fails, he keeps waiting  his beloved and sees only his beloved in every individual.He can even pass all his nights and days withour eating and sleeping. The third category belongs to the poets whose imagination can reach beyond the normal people. They can imagine night in the miseries or morning in the hopes. Their speed of thinking is faster than the speed of light. Poets also seem to behave in an unexpcted manner from the common people. Their thought process is vast than the sky,deeper than the ocean. The last category belongs to the Philosophers,researchers and scientists. These are the highly educated people who believe in practical studies than theory. What they read,see and hear they apply it in their behavior and sometimes it seems to be an unusual way of act. No invention could have been possible if scientists would have not acted in an  unusual way. Most of the innovation,invention and discoveries have been done by the mad people of the world. Their madness have shown a way to the world to move ahead. Even a child behaves in an unusual manner, what retreives from him is the innovation. A smile comes seeing the madness of the kid, madness of a youth bring comedy or it hurts the heart of the people.
       Madness can be harmful to the society. It is the process of unusual thinking. Criminals are also thought to be mad. Their madness is so wild that it can harm the lives of the people. These are the people who put their innovative efforts in negative use. Such type of people can be said to be psychologically disordered, pathetic or mentally retarded. They leave no stone unturned to hurt the society and themselves.
       Madness is thus is the act of behavior that brings innovation. It is not possible for everyman to think differently. All those who think different,behaves different and do different are called to be mad as their acts are not understood by the people . Whatever that is new and unusual looks awkward but does something innovative. Let be a mad and enrich thoughts and bring some innovation that can be fruitful to the society.

Of Name

What is your name? This is the most common question asked when two unknown meet. We all are been called by some name or we can say a group of alphabets which is meaningful that makes our identity.Everybody in this Universe who are living or non-living has been named. Name provides a unique way of existence in this Universe.As soon as the thing originates or born is given a name to be called.
Man always wanted to get famous amongst others. The day he takes birth is been named by his guardians so that he can be called with it. It has also been noticed people while naming their kids take much care. They always wanted to name so that it not only look attractive but also sound creative. While naming people also take help of astrology and numerology. Astrologist and numerologist believe that the name that is been called produce affect on the personality of the Man. Moon signs,Sun signs are different ways which according to astrologist have affect on our lives. Numerologists calculate the number applying some mathematics on the name and gives their own views regarding names.
Not only Man in this Universe is been called by some names,animals,pets are also been named with great care. People always wanted to name their pets to provide them some identity and also their love towards them is seen. All those who are not named are vagabond. None cares them, nor they find any respectable position in the society.
It has always been questioned by some people what is there in the name? But name is the only thing that is the root cause of many problems. If  a Man is called as tommy he thinks himself to be abused as dog. If the name is used in any writing or anywhere that is disputed then it can cause some unpalatable situation.Everybody want to get famous in the society and they do everything to put their name so that they can find respectable position in the society. Sometimes people who are rich pay a good sum so as to purchase the name. It is often seen  people hiring some good writers to publish their writing on their name.
Names influence our lives. The more the innovative and creative name is the more it reflects the personality. If the name is unique it helps the person to achieve things. An interviewer asks the name first and if it is literary then it might be possible that whole interview rotate on the name. Even in the schools,offices who have different names are found to be more valued. In contrast to it if the name is old,or contains something laughable then it can prove against to that person.
People in order to show themselves different do mischief with their names. Sometimes they used the initials or sometimes change their spellings of their true names. Sometimes in order to short the names initials are also used of some respectable people of the society. Amitabh Bacchan is known as AB by his fans while Zaheer Khan as Zak. People sometimes also use names of their ideals to show their love towards them. Some uses name of their ideals to become like them. Writers often found to write their pen name,while criminals rename themselves to hide themselves from the society.
Name provides unique identity and reveals the personality of the person. Sometimes people having names opposite to their behavior are also found. Nayan Sukh who doesn't have eyes and Raja who even doesn't have food to eat. Sometimes people also found naming themselves according to the profession. Thanedar Singh, Hawaldar Singh, these are few common names which can be often seen in the society.
Name not only helps in calling ourselves but also helps in making our personality.Sweet heart or darling is often used for the beloved, puppy for the lovely pet, Surnames used by seniors to their sub-ordinates in offices or neighbors and some funny word is used for the friends.The different the name is the different is the influence seen. People with common names are sometimes treated as common while unusual names attract. Names have such a great effect on our personality that it can even changes the thinking. The unique the name is, the unique the personality reveals.

Various Characteristics Of Different People

Characteristics reveal the personality of a person. Nature,behavior,habits describe how the person is,how he behaves and lives life. There are different types of people in this world who behave differently. The characteristics of a person is like the characteristics of an element. Man is also made up of elements called as genes. Genes provide some characteristics to the man and thus he behave accordingly. Some genes are by born while some get adapted according to the environment.
There are various types of people, some seem to be cheerful while some rude,some are lazy while few are energetic,some motivated while some keep waiting to happen things,some are introvert while some extrovert and the mixture of both the two also prevails like mixture of milk and water, one can never know whether water is in the milk or milk in water.
Man is meant to be an intellectual animal but there are people who have shape and size like human but have doubt on their brain.Some think logically while some try to find the answer what is logic? Some speak with great care while some speak to show that they also have voice. There are other people too who it would be good to call them as dumb, some are too talkative and produce sound more than an old motor and some put permanat full stop on their mouth.
Some people are too lazy to enjoy life while some leave no stone unturned to enjoy every moment of life,others also persist who enjoy ocasionally while some require an invitation that there is something like entertainment in life.Some find life melodious and some search life in music.Some don't have to do anything with musical life they feel satisfied with the life which has no rhyme like the news paper's articles.Their routine is like that to read from the front page till the last and everyday they follow this rule with punctuality.
People of different kinds have different moods, their genes are so effective that they can hit you anytime if you interfere them. There are also people who never want to share anything,everything is private for them while some try every possible way to make others public. As a hero persists in the movie a villain too.Likewise there are people who can't see others happy while some are born to make others happy while some don't have anything to do with others, if they are happy the whole world is happy.
The characteristics of people are such that it shows the psychology of people,how they work,how they behave,how they act, how they feel,how they believe,how they regret. If the characteristics are read carefully then it becomes easy to know the person's psycholgy and then one can easily behave with them accordingly. Some never like to cheer while some can't live without cheering life. The various are the characteristics of people,different are the people in this world with different attitude.

Etiquette

             Etiquette is a word formed for the human beings. This is the only quality that differentiate a man from the animals. Those who are breathing must possess it as an evidence of their existence as a human being. There are many creatures in this Universe who eat  well, drink well and sleep well and pass life in wildly manner. What makes a man different from those creatures?

             Some are well cultured and find themselves on high position in the society while few are the exceptional cases when it becomes very difficult to separate them from the category of animals just because of their shape and size which seems as of human. In certain cases it becomes necessary to show manliness qualities which can prove a man as a human being. While eating, while talking, while sleeping, while reading, while dressing, while walking or at any of our acts one should follow certain rules or else he should be categorized in that exceptional case.

             All those who are great or are respected in the society are the strict followers of etiquette. Etiquette enhances the character and makes it as holy as Ganges. Man's character is just like the river in which if etiquette flow then it remains soft and clear otherwise remains the water of gutters which is full of dirt and smell.

              Etiquette give birth to positive and healthy thinking. A man acts accordingly to his thinking. If there are good and spiritual thoughts in the heart then the actions will also be performed accordingly. Etiquette moralizes the man, increases his charm,serve him and takes him to zenith. This dose provides the necessary elements that a body and the soul requires.

Note:- This article has been published in Veerangana in 2005-2006 and is a creative work of mine and belongs to me.

Social Networking Sites

Human is always considered as the intellectual animal and takes birth to interact people. In the different ages man has found different mediums to interact. From the ancient age to the Modern age man tried every possible way of networking.From the pigeons to the telephones and from the mobiles to the networking sites the medium of interaction have become easy,simple and more convinient.This is the era of networking sites where man want to interact with various kinds of people, whom he knows, whom he dont know, his friends,his enemies,his relatives,parents,sibilings,beloved or girl friend or a boy friend. Interaction and chatting delights the person in various ways. sometimes it provides knowledge,sometimes happiness and sometimes a way to get the work done.

Networking sites can be called as the pocket world where people can talk, interact,send mesages whenever,whereever and whom so ever. Not only it changed the world of business,media and students it also showed new areas for the criminals, illegal relations. It has become the place to do everything at one place.From the recreation to the commitment in the relations. If you are feeling lethargic you can find music,for gaining knowledge you have various articles, for the students subjects and topics to pass examination are always available, for the business companies a good  way to advertise their products and to flirt, girls can find handsome dudes and vice versa. 

Time has changed and the era seems to be more fast,quick and clever. The young and undeveloped branins don't take now years to grow, even a kid of 6 years who give his 3-4 hours regularly on these sites is far more mature,developed and witted than a person of 45+ years who never surf of such places. Earlier, kids were given the dose of milk,dry fruits,and some herbal medicines to grow up their mind, now everything is constituted in these sites, its just like a capsule which consists of dose and kids feed it and develop themselves. But everything that is provided in exccess is always dangerous so is the case with such sites. The excessism can lead to side effects as well. 

Whatever may be these sites are growing at much faster rates even than the population of India and Pakistan. People who even don't have good meals to eat, have their own account on such sites. With the rate they grew they have also put pshychologists in dillema whether its a necessity now to surf on such sites or its a way to diminish ourselves. Loneliness,sezopherina,and other pshychological diseases are in excess now. People become so much addictive that they even can forget to eat,sleep on time. Such is the impact of such sites. You can forget everything including yourselves but you won't leave any stone unturned to forget your username and password of your networking site.